Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Decommissioning Until Im Thinner

I can not do it until I lose this weight! If you do not have the life you have because you think you do not look good in shorts or you can not get to wear a swimsuit, you do nothing more than losing your life for nothing. Maybe you do not look like a bathing beauty but who does? I heard many people tell me they do nothing to be at a weight they once were, but when questioned they almost always say, "Now that I think I thought at the time too fat ", but guess what? They are not. These same people are sometimes shocked to see photos of themselves as a teenager or young adult, "Why I am not fat at all, they say.

Where do these fears originate, except in our minds, which in fact I wonder - is it a different way to the brain to try to keep us to take the necessary steps to change things? Remember, your brain will do what it can to keep things as they are, at least initially, so crazy notions about the future is clouding your decision in May.

It is unlikely that you'll hear someone on their deathbed say, "If only I had more hours devoted to employment", but they will say: "I wish that I spend more time with my family. " Go ahead and spend that time doing what you love to be with people you enjoy. If you like the outdoors, be outdoors. Like water, but you have not been in a pool of 20 years because you think you look awful in a swimsuit? Who cares? Go to the pool today, tomorrow or next week. Just go.

It is not always Who are we?

Think about this: Sally can not go out because she does not want anyone to see in a dress size 22. She is too embarrassed and self conscious, it is not. On his way to work one day, she must stop and buy stamps. John spent his in the street on the way to the Post, but did not see it because it was looking at his shoes and feeling bad for herself. As John is walking to the post office he thinks about how he wants to train at the gym, but I can not seem to get himself started. After all, "Everyone notice and make fun of me." Mary, the clerk is wearing a dress that no longer, as it corresponds to the loss of 25 lbs. But it can not itself to buy new clothes because of what people might think. "She is lost in thought and almost John Donne the wrong change, he hardly notices because he is thinking about the gym and horror of everyone noticing him and reported.

Neither Sally, John and Mary to see anybody but themselves. None of them noticed the other, even when they had the opportunity. Curiously none of us is the center of attention may have to wait at your own wedding, and sometimes not even there. Therefore cease to be itself and you get what you want. Of course there are always people who will make a nasty remark, but hey, they do not know you. They do not know your situation. They know nothing about you, and probably never will be, and guess what? They are not really, that's why they are having fun being rude to foreigners, so why should you?

See care, where you can make a difference. Show care when you are able to help someone without expecting anything in return. Life is short. The days passed in an endless stream from one moment to another, and what you do with this life is entirely up to you. It is not always about food.

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